How Do I Know If I’m Changing for Myself or for Other People?
Most of us want things for more than one reason. You might genuinely want the promotion because the work interests you and still enjoy the thought of telling people you got it. That doesn’t make the ambition false. The more useful question is what happens when other people’s reactions start influencing the choice itself. It can be much easier to imagine the announcement than the ordinary Tuesday six months later. Read the full blog to explore how being seen can gradually become part of what you’re choosing.